Ah boys to Husband.

Can't explain much so just gonna let words roll. Continuing from a very long ago post. Title of the post is Day 3: human fatality. I talked of guys going out from husband back to boyfriend mode.
First off its my opinion so you are free to disagree but it should make sense to most people.Now that that's over and done with lets continue.

For me/guys like me. Dunno who you are but if u feel that way then its cool. There will be a point where the bf/gf thing stops. Yea it does. Lots of people break up when this change happens why? Cause well they don't think. Different people are different and well this happens to quite a lot of people. There will be a poin where one/both will be so comfortable with each other he/she will go into their wife/husband mode. It is auto and usually you may not notice yourself. It is when all the I love you thing don't happen often alr. Guys will start to concentrate on their work either school/working, girls may be more motherly then usual? This is where shit happens.

This process is done so that your body and mind test how well you and your other half can do if living together. Most couple might be breaking up at this point cause the female will think that the guy don't love her as much and the guy will feel that the girl is being paranoid and will be annoyed by her. This point in your R/S will be on that's on the test of trust and how deep your love is, not said but felt. The feeling when he hugs you, look at you, smile at you...
Some guys don't talk much, think too far and did too little but deep down what they want is just the best for you. Some don't fight cause they know they are not good enf.  They want a future, a possible future so they work hard and most wont talk about it. They push themselves without you know and when they fail they sink. You bring them back they'll push even harder but on the surface she will only see distance. All guys would know. Who will dare marry a odd job worker who would dare marry a guy with only his ITE cert with no stable job. Even if she don't mind we mind. There will always be a better man. If we alr lost in looks we can't lose in smarts. We live in that fear everyday. There is always a more handsome man in poly JC. The % of play boys maybe the same but they are the ones who can affort to have dinner at classy place. Time and brains to study fast and then plan all these romantic things and money to buy if they are too lazy to make themselves. We have alr lost so much. They want the best for "us" we want the best for you. So that everything is done and if we do die before you, there is nothin to worry about. You will have your girlfriends money is safe in the bank the housing debt has been paid and insurance give you enf money so you don't have to work. We are blocks of wood we suck at being romantic but all we want is to give you a good life and we strive and sadly always mistaken and we don't argue back. We know the risks we took it.

So much we want to do for you. Argument with your girlfriends? Help you all patch up so that you have a friend to talk to. Family problem? Teach you how to fix it or how to get along so if we ever split your family can support you. Like how a family should. So many thing we want for you to have and all we want is to see your smiling face at the end of the day. Happy. Satisfied. Even if we get weaker everyday we stand strong for you. We just want you happy. Nothing else matters.